DOMS PAGLIAWAN

It’s impossible nowadays to deny how engrossed we are with our gadgets and digital apps. I often find myself glued to my phone, laptop, or tablet, jumping from one app to another—whether it’s for work, socializing, or just passing the time. But as convenient as these devices are, I’ve seen firsthand and heard countless stories of how their misuse can lead to dangerous, sometimes fatal, accidents. The line between convenience and recklessness has blurred, and too often, we find ourselves paying the price.

One of the most alarming instances is when people use their phones while driving. I’ve caught myself doing it more times than I’d like to admit—just a glance at a text message or a tap to skip a song. But I know that those few seconds of distraction could mean the difference between life and death. I remember reading about a young driver who, in a split second of looking at her phone, veered off the road and crashed. She didn’t survive, and neither did the elderly couple in the oncoming car. It’s horrifying to think that something as small as a text message could lead to such a tragedy.

It’s not just driving; accidents happen everywhere. I’ve seen people nearly walk into traffic because they were too engrossed in their phones. I even had a close call once while crossing a busy intersection, my eyes glued to an urgent email. I was yanked back by a friend just in time, and the blaring horn of a speeding car still haunts me. It’s a reminder of how vulnerable we become when we let our devices distract us from our surroundings.

Apps are also culprits in other, more unexpected ways. Fitness apps that push people to their limits, navigation apps that suggest risky routes, or even augmented reality games that encourage players to chase virtual prizes without regard for real-world dangers. I remember the frenzy of a popular game where people were injured—or worse—because they were too focused on their screens to notice cliffs, traffic, or even other people. It’s shocking how a harmless app can turn deadly when we don’t exercise caution.

Social media is another double-edged sword. The quest for the perfect selfie or video content has led to a disturbing trend of people putting themselves in harm’s way. I’ve seen news stories about influencers who climbed dangerous heights or balanced precariously on ledges for the sake of likes and views, only to fall to their deaths. It’s heartbreaking that in our quest to capture the perfect moment, we often ignore the very real dangers around us.

I’ve also noticed how the constant need to be connected and available affects our mental alertness. Multitasking between work, social notifications, and messages while trying to navigate daily life has dulled my awareness more times than I’d like to admit. There’s always the temptation to check my phone when I shouldn’t, and I’m constantly battling the pull of digital distractions that can lead to careless mistakes, like leaving a stove on or missing important cues in my environment.

What’s scarier is that these accidents aren’t just limited to adults. I’ve seen kids with tablets, totally unaware of their surroundings, running into objects or even wandering into dangerous areas. As someone who grew up with fewer digital distractions, I can’t help but worry about how this constant connectivity is conditioning us—and the next generation—to be less present, less careful, and more prone to accidents.

Ultimately, the responsibility lies with us to recognize when our gadgets are becoming a hazard. I’ve made a conscious effort to put my phone away when I’m behind the wheel or in situations that demand my full attention. I’ve learned to set boundaries with my apps and notifications to avoid the trap of constant distraction. Because as much as I love my devices and the convenience they bring, I know that no message, game, or social media post is worth risking my safety—or my life.