DOMS PAGLIAWAN

In the noisy corridors of life, we find many people stuffed to the brim with knowledge, but only a rare few are graced with the gift of wisdom. Knowledge fills books and slides easily from tongue to tongue; it’s measured, weighed, and neatly counted. Wisdom, however, is more elusive—a quiet understanding that slips between lines, a kind of depth that resists easy cataloging.

I think of knowledge as a library, immense and orderly, each book a polished nugget of information ready to be plucked off the shelf. Wisdom, on the other hand, is more like a candle in a dark room, soft but revealing just enough to help you find your way. Knowledge is the facts and theories we memorize and repeat; wisdom is knowing which facts to trust, which theories to question, and which voices to heed. In a world obsessed with the measurable, with resumes packed with degrees, certifications, and honors, wisdom waits quietly, often dismissed as too abstract, too vague. But it’s that very unmeasurable quality that makes wisdom essential. Without it, all the knowledge in the world might lead us not to answers but to confusion, sometimes even disaster.

Consider those “experts” who have credentials for miles yet seem to lack a basic understanding of people or the real world. They quote studies and use big words, but when faced with a real-life situation, they fumble, unable to turn that knowledge into practical solutions. I’ve met people who are fluent in theories and models but trip on the simple act of kindness or practicality, like trying to apply algebra to a baby’s cries. Knowledge can be a well-stocked toolbox, but if you don’t know which tool to use—or how to use it—it’s just metal and wood.

The irony is that, in our society, we often mistake knowledge for wisdom. We assume that the more a person knows, the wiser they must be, like believing a chef’s cookbook makes one a good cook. Yet, life has a way of showing us otherwise, doesn’t it? The person who spouts facts at every turn often stumbles when confronted with an ethical dilemma or when asked to understand another’s suffering. It’s almost comical, in a tragic sort of way, how people who claim to know so much can sometimes be blind to the simplest truths.

What’s even more troubling is that among those who do possess wisdom, few seem inclined to use it for the good of others. I’ve seen people with sharp insights use their gift like a weapon, wielding wisdom as a tool to manipulate, deceive, and pull strings from behind the scenes. It’s as if wisdom, instead of lighting the way, becomes a cloak for selfish ambition. The wise know better, but not all of them choose better. And maybe that’s why wisdom is so rare; it requires not only knowledge but a certain courage, and a willingness to act in ways that benefit others, even when there’s no immediate reward.

The paradox deepens: we often admire the knowledgeable more than the wise, perhaps because the fruits of wisdom are subtle, while knowledge wears badges and certificates. Wisdom doesn’t boast or declare itself, and that makes it harder to recognize in a world dazzled by shiny objects. Yet when I look around, it’s those few wise souls—the ones who walk quietly, who listen before speaking, who understand before acting—that make the real difference. They may not write headlines or win awards, but they leave ripples, changing lives in ways that are hard to measure but impossible to forget.

In my mind, wisdom is a slow-growing tree, while knowledge is the flashy flower that blooms and fades quickly. Flowers are lovely, of course, but they don’t endure. We need more trees. We need people who understand that knowledge without wisdom is a half-built bridge, useful to no one. It’s those who combine knowledge with compassion, with a sense of justice, who make a lasting impact.

Perhaps what we need is to start valuing wisdom as much as we value knowledge, to cultivate it not just in schools but in our homes, and our communities. Imagine a world where wisdom is prized, where we teach our children not only to memorize facts but to question them, to see beyond them, to use them for good. That, I believe, would be a world worth striving for, one where knowledge becomes the foundation, and wisdom the light guiding our way forward.