The aroma of freshly baked bread, the warm glow of the storefront, the steady stream of customers – it was a picture of a thriving small business. This bakery, nestled in a quaint corner of the city, was a local gem, a testament to the power of passion and hard work. Yet, the owner, a man with kind eyes and a weathered face, seemed curiously reluctant to share his entrepreneurial journey.
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It was a stark contrast to the countless stories I’d heard from other small business owners, eager to recount their struggles, triumphs, and lessons learned. This man, however, remained tight-lipped, his silence a puzzle I couldn’t quite decipher.
I couldn’t help but be drawn to the mystery. What could be the reason behind his reluctance to share his story? Was it a fear of scrutiny, a desire for privacy, or something more profound?
Here are some possible explanations for the owner’s silence:
1. The Burden of Success:
Perhaps the owner felt overwhelmed by the weight of his success. The constant demands of running a thriving business, the pressure to maintain quality and customer satisfaction, could have left him exhausted and yearning for a quiet life. Sharing his journey, with its inherent vulnerability and scrutiny, might have felt like an added burden.
2. The Fear of Imitation:
Some successful entrepreneurs are fiercely protective of their ideas and strategies. The owner might have feared that sharing his story could inspire competitors, leading to a loss of market share or a dilution of his unique brand. This fear, while understandable, could have led to a self-imposed silence.
3. The Simplicity of Passion:
Perhaps the owner simply found no need to elaborate. His passion for baking, his dedication to quality, and his love for his community might have been the sole driving forces behind his success. He might have viewed his journey as a natural progression, a testament to his craft rather than a calculated strategy.
4. The Trauma of Failure:
The owner’s silence could be a reflection of past failures. He might have experienced setbacks or challenges that left him reluctant to revisit the past. Sharing his journey could have reopened old wounds, forcing him to confront the struggles he had overcome.
5. The Value of Privacy:
Some individuals simply value their privacy. The owner might have preferred to keep his personal life separate from his business. Sharing his story, with its inherent details about his background, motivations, and struggles, could have felt like an invasion of his personal space.
6. The Legacy of Silence:
Perhaps the owner learned from his own mentors or role models, who valued discretion and humility. He might have been raised in an environment where success was not meant to be bragged about, where the focus was on hard work and quiet achievement.
7. The Power of Mystery:
The owner’s silence could have been a deliberate strategy. By keeping his story a secret, he might have created an aura of mystique around his business, enhancing its allure and fostering a sense of curiosity among customers.
The Unanswered Question:
The owner’s silence, while intriguing, ultimately remained a mystery. It was a reminder that every entrepreneur’s journey is unique, shaped by their own experiences, motivations, and values. While some thrive on sharing their stories, others find solace in the quiet satisfaction of their achievements.
The bakery, with its warm glow and the tantalizing aroma of fresh bread, continued to be a testament to the owner’s dedication and passion. His silence, while perplexing, only added to the charm of his story, leaving a lasting impression on those who encountered his quiet success.
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Unifying our external senses and our spiritual powers
WE should do our best to pursue this ideal. We know that due to our wounded condition here on earth, there is division and conflict between our corporeal and spiritual dimensions of our life. St. Paul articulated this condition well when he said: “I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.” (Rom 7,19).
But there is always hope as long as we also train ourselves precisely to unify our external senses and corporeal faculties, and our spiritual powers. Unifying our external senses and our spiritual powers brings about the basic unity of life we are meant to have. It’s a way to achieve that ideal condition of our life where we become recollected and contemplative even in the midst of our earthly affairs.
And by unity of life, we mean the ideal of first of all letting our spiritual powers be animated by the spirit of God, and then letting our spiritual powers animate our external senses. The perfection of this unity of life is when we manage to unite ourselves in the life and nature of God as we are meant to be, since we are God’s image and likeness.
Of course, our external senses—sight, hearing, feeling, etc.—feed our spiritual powers of our intelligence and will with raw data, but these spiritual powers of ours, in a manner of speaking, should refine and purify the data received, and animate them with the spirit of God, that is, with our faith, hope and charity.
We should avoid reversing the roles between our corporeal and spiritual faculties, making our external senses rule and dominate our spiritual powers. Nowadays, this anomaly is taking place and is quite common even. Our external senses are now overstimulated to such an extent that they deaden or numb our spiritual faculties.
As consequences, we are seeing a rise in mental illness and a greater vulnerability to demonic possessions and other irregular situations. Many people, especially the young ones, are falling into all kinds of obsessions and addictions.
The main problem, of course, is that the senses are not united or inspired by faith. They are just left on their own, ruled mainly by instincts and other biological factors. Or at best they may be guided only by an intelligence that is not yet enlightened by faith.
And things can become so bad that these senses can get quite hostile to anything related to faith that definitely involves spiritual and supernatural realities. We need to realize that the first, last and constant object that our senses should perceive is God since he is the origin of everything, the maintainer of the existence of all things. He is everywhere.
As St. Augustine once said: “To find where God is may be difficult, but to find where he is not, that is even more difficult.” And to be sure, God’s presence in everything is not something cold and indifferent. It is full of love and solicitude. He is always and actively intervening in our lives.
We need to train our senses to be guided by our Christian faith, hope and charity, so we can capture this very consoling reality. They should not just be left on their own, guided and ruled only by factors other than our faith, hope and charity. That state of affairs would lead us nowhere other than trouble.
Thus, if we are serious with guiding our senses and emotions with faith, we have to realize that our faith should not just be an intellectual affair, lived and pursued only in the spiritual world of good intentions and right doctrine. It has to involve the basic elements of our humanity, which are our senses, our feelings, our emotions and passions.